أزمة المراهقين مع الاباءقد تطول فتر

أزمة المراهقين مع الاباءقد تطول فترة هذه الأزمة مما يصعب حلها، وهذا أمر مقلق بشكل خاص هو مزيج من عدة أعراض (الفشل في المدرسة، الحزن، والانسحاب).
إذا، لمدة 6 أشهر، ابنك المراهق لا يترك غرفته، وليس هاتفه الأصدقاء وتجد نفسها الفشل في المدرسة، لذلك هناك عليك أن تسأل الأسئلة ونرى أنه بعد ذلك، يمكن أن تذهب بسرعة جدا.
الفشل الدراسي والتكرار وهذا مزعج أنها تتسبب في فقدان زملاء الدراسة، وبالتالي فإن التنشئة الاجتماعية المبكرة ".

كيف يمكن أن نفسر ذلك في الأسرة، وجعل في سن المراهقة الأزمة وليس له أخ أو أخت؟
"بشكل عام، وهذا هو أذكى والأكثر حساسية هو أن يكون قادرا على تحمل لها التوترات العائلية، وبالتالي حماية ما تبقى من الأسرة. لذلك بدلا من النظر على أنها مارقة، يمكن أن ينظر إليه على سبيل الاحتجاج، و "الثوري" في محاولة لفهم ما يشكك فيه، وأسئلة مثيرة للاهتمام التي تثيرها. المراهقين حساسون جدا من الحالة النفسية والديهم. إذا شعروا أن الزوجين يذهب على نحو خاطئ، أن والديها العمل جدا، وسوف، من خلال أعراضه، ورفض هذا النوع من الحياة، وبالتالي، في طريقها، وطرح الأسئلة حول المعنى الحقيقي للحياة، الحب في زوجين، والسعادة ... "

؟ وماذا عن أزمة المراهقة في أسرة الربائب
" هو أكثر تعقيدا لأن الأزمة "العادية" هي مشاكل مساحة إضافية، فقد واختراع. على سبيل المثال، عندما تم العثور على المتدربين كبير في أسرة الربائب. بشكل عام، لا يزال هناك، كما لو وجد الآباء التوازن العاطفي، والأطفال على التكيف وتسير على ما يرام. ولكن
إذا لم يتم قبول حياة الأم الجديدة وليس غيرها، أو الانفصال بين الزوجين، وهناك فرصة جيدة أن الشاب أن يؤخذ رهينة في الصراع بين الزوجين السابقين. عندما يكون الشخص الشباب في أزمة مع زوج والدته أو زوجة الأب، يجب عليك التأكد من أن الوالد الآخر لا يتكلم مريض من هذا الشخص. أكثر عموما، إذا تم تدمير زوجين، الآباء بحاجة لبناء الزوجين الوالدين أن تحترم ولاء تلك التجربة الأطفال من والدهم والأم ... المطلوب في سن المراهقة للمشاركة ل حتى أن تختار بين والده ويتم وضع والدته في صراع الولاء التي يمكن أن تضر به فقط ".

كلمة أخيرة لقرائنا؟
" ويجب تجنب المزالق اثنين:
للاعتقاد بأن هذه الأزمة هي نهاية العالم
يعتقدون أنه لا يهم وأن الأمور سوف تتحسن من تلقاء نفسها

ل80٪ من المراهقين، سارت الامور بشكل جيد، لذلك لا الآن، تخيل أسوأ. .. ولكن يجب أن نظل يقظين لإشارات استغاثة المحتملة (مزيج من العديد من الأعراض ومدتها).
يرجى العلم أن أكثر ضوضاء الأزمات وحلها إذا وافق الآباء أن لا يفهم كل شيء استمرار لمحاولة القيام به هو القول، من دون التخلي المراهقة. انها مجرد أن الجميع يمكن أن تواجه ويقول ان الجميع قصارى جهده في وضع صعب للجميع ".

النتائج (الإنجليزية) 1:

Adolescent crisis with الاباءقد longer that this crisis is making it difficult to solve, and this is particularly worrying is the combination of several symptoms (failure at school, sadness, withdrawal).So, for six months, your teenager leaves his room, not his friends and finds herself failing in school, so there you have to ask questions and feel it after that, you can go very quickly.Academic failure and repeating this annoying cause loss of classmates, so the early socialization.How can we explain that in the family, make a teen crisis and not a brother or sister?"In General, this is the smartest and most sensitive is to be able to afford her family tensions, thus protecting the rest of the family. So instead of looking on as a rogue, it can be seen as a protest, and "revolutionary" to try to understand what questions, and interesting questions posed. Teenagers are very sensitive from the psychological parents. If they feel that the couple goes wrong, her parents work too, it will, through its symptoms, and reject this kind of life, and therefore, in its way, and ask questions about the true meaning of life, love in couple, happiness. "؟ What about teenage souses family crisis"It is more complicated because the" normal "crisis is additional space problems, and invention. For example, when large trainees were found in the family of souses. In General, there is still, as if he found emotional balance parents and children to adapt and go well. ButIf the mother's life is not accepted and not others, or separation between spouses, and there is a good chance that the young man taken hostage in the conflict between the former spouses. When a person is young people in crisis with his stepfather or stepmother, you should make sure that the other parent does not speak ill of that person. More generally, if a couple were destroyed, parents need to build a couple of parents to respect and loyalty that experience their father and mother of children. Teen is required to participate to even choose between his father and his mother is placed in a conflict of loyalty that could harm him.Any last words for our readers?"We must avoid two pitfalls:To believe that this crisis is the end of the world.They think it doesn't matter and that things will get better on its own.For 80% of adolescents, goes well, so now, imagine the worst. .. But we must remain vigilant to potential distress signals (a combination of many symptoms and duration).Please note that the more noise and solve crises if parents agreed to not understand everything continued to try to do is to say, without giving up adolescence. It's just that everybody can experience says that all his best in a difficult situation for everybody. "

النتائج (الإنجليزية) 2:

Adolescent crisis with Alaabakd lengthened the period of the crisis , making it difficult to solve, and this is worrying in particular is a combination of a number of symptoms (of school failure, sadness, withdrawal).
If, for a period of 6 months, your teenager does not leave his room, not his friends and finds herself failure at the school, so there you have to ask questions and see it then, you can go very quickly.
school failure and redundancy and that annoying they cause the loss of classmates, so the early socialization. "

How can we explain that in the family, make at the age of adolescence crisis and does not have a brother or sister?
"in general, this is the smartest and most sensitive is to be able to carry her family tensions, and thus protect the rest of the family. So instead of looking at it is a rogue, it can be seen as a protest, and the "revolutionary" in an attempt to understand what the question, interesting and raised questions. Teenagers are very sensitive to the psychological state of their parents. If you feel that the couple goes wrong, that her parents are very work, and will, through its symptoms, and reject this kind of life, and therefore, in the process, ask questions about the true meaning of life, love in the couple, and happiness ... "

? What about adolescence crisis in stepfamily
"is more complex because the crisis" normal "is the additional space problems, it has invented. For example, when it was found a large trainees in the stepfamily. In general, there is still, as if the parents emotional balance, and children to adapt to found and are going well. But
if you did not accept the new life of the mother and not the other, or separation between the couple, and there is a good chance that the young man to be taken hostage in the conflict between the former couple. When a young person is in a crisis with his stepfather or stepmother, you must make sure that the other parent does not speak ill of a person. More generally, if the destruction of the couple, parents need to build a parental couple must respect and loyalty that experience of children from their father and mother ... required the teen to participate for up to choose between his father and is put his mother in a loyalty that could hurt him just struggle. " a

final word for our readers?
" It must avoid the pitfalls two:
to believe that this crisis is the end of the world
believe that it does not matter and that things will get better on its own

for 80% of teenagers, all goes well, so do not now, imagine the worst. .. But we must remain vigilant for signs of distress and potential ( a combination of many of the symptoms and duration).
Please note that the more noise and solve crises If approved by parents that everything is understood continued to try to do it is to say, without giving adolescence. It 's just that everyone can experience and say that everybody did his best in a difficult situation for all. "

النتائج (الإنجليزية) 3:

The crisis of adolescents with Alabaqd prolonged the crisis which are difficult to resolve, this is particularly disturbing is the combination of several symptoms of failure at school, sadness and withdrawal).If, for a period of 6 months, your teenager does not leave his room, and his friends find themselves fail in school, so I have to ask questions, and see after that, you can go very fast.Academic failure and redundancy that is annoying, it can cause a loss of the classmates study; therefore, early socialization.How can we explain that in family and teen crisis and does not have a brother or a sister?"In general, this is the smartest and most sensitive to be able to afford her family tensions, thus protecting the rest of the family. Therefore, rather than as a rogue, and could be seen as a protest, "revolutionary" in an attempt to understand the doubts and questions the interesting challenges. Teenagers are very sensitive of the psychological status of the parents. If they feel that the couple goes wrong, so her parents work, will, through the symptoms, and this kind of life, therefore, the on the way, and ask questions about the true meaning of life, love, and happy couple.? what about the crisis of adolescence in a Alrbayb"He is more complex because the crisis is" normal "is the extra space, and problems. For example, when the trainee is found in a large family of Alrbayb. In general, there is still, as if any parents, emotional balance, and to adjust the fine. ButIf the mother"s life is accepted the new rather than the other, or separation between husband and wife, there is a good chance that the young man would be held hostage to the conflict between ex spouses. When a person is young people in crisis with the husband of his mother or stepmother, you should make sure that the other parent don"t speak ill of this person. More generally, if the destruction of the couple, parents need for spouses and parents to respect children"s loyalty to the father and mother. Teen to participate for up to choose between his father and his mother are in a conflict of loyalties that could harm only.A final word to our readers?"We must avoid the pitfalls of two:To believe that this crisis is the end of the world.They think it doesn"t matter and that things will get better on its own.80% of the teens, all goes well, so do not now, imagine the worst. .. But we must remain vigilant for signs of distress potential (the combination of multiple symptoms and duration).Please be advised that more noise and resolving crises, if the parents continued to try to do is say to don"t understand everything, without giving up the of adolescence. It"s just that everyone says that everybody can face everything in a difficult situation for everyone.